Do it, now.

2022.01.29 09:30 toasterburger Do it, now.

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2022.01.29 09:30 1TyMPink THE BOYZ Juyeon & Q, 2PM JUN.K & Wooyoung & SUPER JUNIOR Leeteuk & Shindong - REVEAL + My House + Rokkugo!!! (SUPER JUNIOR-T) @ JTBC Knowing Bros Episode 317 (220129)

THE BOYZ Juyeon & Q, 2PM JUN.K & Wooyoung & SUPER JUNIOR Leeteuk & Shindong - REVEAL + My House + Rokkugo!!! (SUPER JUNIOR-T) @ JTBC Knowing Bros Episode 317 (220129) submitted by 1TyMPink to kpop [link] [comments]


2022.01.29 09:30 Guilty_Day8275 STARTING A NEW MADDEN 22 PS4 LEAGUE

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2022.01.29 09:30 0hdhddh Tenhle druh houby neznám 👍

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2022.01.29 09:30 MattTheMentor How to set boundaries: Teach people how they can treat you

Each friendship or relationship is like two people steering a ship, but each can only see out the window on their side of the ship. They are trying to avoid an iceberg on their side and steer hard towards your side, but you have an iceberg on your side too. The ship can safely sail in between the two, but only if you speak up do your part of the steering too.
Can you see how their behavior is not malicious? From their perspective they are just trying to avoid an iceberg, just trying to get their needs met. They are asking for their needs to be met, and they expect you to do the same. Do you?
Why asking for your needs is important
Maybe you don’t feel like you can ask for things. Maybe you expect other people to know what your needs are. Do you feel like you shouldn’t have to ask? Are you offended or hurt that other people don’t just know what you need? That they don’t magically know they are hurting you, even though you never confronted them about it?
Listen guys. My name might as well be Jack. I have hit this iceberg a thousand times, I spent years not asking for my needs, and it burned (froze?) me every time. Maybe there was enough room for two people on that door, but did Jack ask Rose to scoot over? Of course not. Don’t laugh, because I’m pretty sure you’re shivering in this water also.
“Honesty gets you where you’re going faster”
That’s one of my favorite quotes, and it applies here big time. Imagine you’re struggling to hold yourself together and someone who always asks you for favors then asks for one additional thing. What could happen if you’re honest about struggling and say you can’t help them?

All of those scenarios are possible - I’ve lived them. All of them are better than suffering in silence. Honesty about your needs doesn’t change where you’re headed, it just gets you there faster. People cannot make their own informed choices until you’re transparent about what you’re dealing with. People cannot be compassionate or fair until they know what your needs are. So when was the last time you said ‘No,’ or asked for help when you needed it?
Grab the steering wheel of this ship. Tell people where your icebergs are. Your icebergs are just as important as theirs, and if the ship is steering straight for disaster you cannot keep silent. This boat is your relationship with that person. It’s all the experiences you share. It’s the doors that open by building a real connection and being able to help each other grow and enjoy life. Protecting it is your job as much as theirs. So if you keep your mouth shut and let the ship drift into disaster you are causing the pain you say you don’t want.
People want to treat you right, but you have to tell them how
I think many people in your life would fight like hell for you if they just knew what you were going through. And maybe some people in your life are uncaring and unkind, but at least try to teach them how to treat you. Be honest, open, direct, and clear about your needs. Tell them point blank if how they treat you isn’t okay. Don’t let them hurt you and secretly hate them for not realizing. Tell them where your icebergs are, and if they let the ship sink then move on. Respect yourself enough to stop wasting time. There are people out there who want to steer this ship properly with you. They want to be there for you. They are waiting for you to learn this lesson so you can be there for them too.
You can teach the world how to treat you, and it can meet your needs. You can feel better, you can have boundaries, and you don’t have to hurt like this. You don’t have to be the victim. I think you know where your icebergs are. I think you know this won’t get better until you say something. And I think you know which ships of yours have already sunk and it’s time to move on. What are you waiting for?
Further Reading: If this post resonated with you then I think you’d really benefit from How to Solve Our Human Problems by G. K. Gyatso. His writing helped me understand that holding onto resentful feelings is self destructive, how anger clouds understanding, and patience clears it. Buddhism has a lot of extremely helpful ideas you can apply without following the religious parts, and thanks to this book my anxiety and stress are far less than they used to be.
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2022.01.29 09:30 krinkyeee_113 So hyped for today's episode

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2022.01.29 09:30 Elon___ Images that invoke nostalgia

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2022.01.29 09:30 0hdhddh Tenhle druh houby neznám 👍

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2022.01.29 09:30 BobArctor1994 In fact you see the same sort of thing when you look at the sperax.io reviews on Trustpilot, which actually seem worse.

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2022.01.29 09:30 Skinsfan221 Former Nats #28 Jayson Werth

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2022.01.29 09:30 Aboutislam1 Did God Become Man? German Language - About Islam | Wurde Gott Zum Menschen?

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2022.01.29 09:30 volcanoedude Dorfromantik 9

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2022.01.29 09:30 JashanSabharwal Should Be Less Toxic....

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2022.01.29 09:30 Specialist_Force3453 This cushion is mine

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2022.01.29 09:30 ElCharlatan Block twitter promoted post?

Hello,
Since we have custom filters and lists on brave://adblock, is it possible to to block twitter promoted posts?
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2022.01.29 09:30 Captain_Kuro10 The story of Ambiorix

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2022.01.29 09:30 kylendm Gotta love 9x39

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2022.01.29 09:30 FazBoi6 Cursed wallpaper number 2 baby let’s see how long this’ll last until it’s taken down.

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2022.01.29 09:30 oceanicplatform TIL "disgruntled" is the opposite of "gruntled". To be gruntled means you are pleased, satisfied or contented.

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2022.01.29 09:30 killHACKS Skiing wipeout

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2022.01.29 09:30 Jormundurok ITAP of a crane

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2022.01.29 09:30 Reddit-Stat-Bot r/thethroatqueens just hit 5,000 subscribers!

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2022.01.29 09:30 remvs98 Bewoner aangehouden om bedreiging in ‘onrustig’ asielzoekerscentrum Budel

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2022.01.29 09:30 DokCyber I walked down a street where the houses were numbered 64K, 128K, 256K, 512K and 1MB. That was a trip down memory lane!

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2022.01.29 09:30 Reddit-Stat-Bot r/thethroatqueens just hit 5,000 subscribers!

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